Tuesday, February 8, 2011

Very Early Wednesday Morning

It is bitterly cold outside, the snow hasn't come yet but it can't be far off. Everyone has been out and about getting ready for the latest storm.  I bought a stiff yard broom (the last one in the store) to knock the snow off the car.  It's illegal in Oklahoma to drive with snow on the roof in case it slides off suddenly on to the windscreen.


I went to the gospel singing at the Senior Centre this morning and it was good, although the numbers were down.  I found something on the internet to contribute.  It seemed to go down very well, and one person asked for a copy.  I feel if it struck a chord with just one person it was worth the effort.  I thought I'd post a copy for you.  It's called 
Burned Biscuits
When I was a kid, my mom liked to make breakfast food for dinner every now and then. And I remember one night in particular when she had made breakfast after a long, hard day at work. 

On that evening so long ago, my mom placed a plate of eggs, sausage and extremely burned biscuits in front of my dad. I remember waiting to see if anyone noticed! Yet all my dad did was reach for his biscuit, smile at my mom and ask me how my day was at school... I don't remember what I told him that night, but I do remember watching him smear butter and jelly on that biscuit and eat every bite! 

When I got up from the table that evening, I remember hearing my mom apologize to my dad for burning the biscuits. And I'll never forget what he said: "Honey, I love burned biscuits." 

Later that night, I went to kiss Daddy good night and I asked him if he really liked his biscuits burned. He wrapped me in his arms and said, "Your Momma put in a hard day at work today and she's real tired. And besides - a burned biscuit never hurt anyone!" 

Life is full of imperfect things.....and imperfect people. I'm not the best at hardly anything, and I forget birthdays and anniversaries just like everyone else. But what I've learned over the years is that learning to accept each others faults - and choosing to celebrate each others differences - is one of the most important keys to creating a healthy, growing, and lasting relationship. 

And that's my prayer for you today. That you will learn to take the good, the bad, and the ugly parts of your life and lay them at the feet of God. Because in the end, He's the only One who will be able to give you a relationship where a burned biscuit isn't a deal-breaker! 

We could extend this to any relationship. In fact, understanding is the base of any relationship, be it a husband-wife or parent-child or friendship! 

This evening - or late afternoon - Bruce and Rosalyn invited me to the movies to see The King's Speech.  It was so good, one of the best films I've seen in a long time, and they thought so too.  I would have been a bit nervous at venturing out in case it started snowing before I got home, but they kindly picked me up.

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